Its important from time to time that we sit down and honestly assess our lives. Doing so allows us to make an honest determination about where we are now and where we want to be in the future. When were assessing our finances, we prepare a financial balance sheet. On it we list our debits and credits so that we can determine our bottom line. What if you wanted to determine the state of the life you lead? How is it, or is it not, serving you? The answer is simple prepare a Life Balance Sheet. Much like a financial balance sheet, list all of your lifestyle debits (choices that detract from balance) such as the following: Maintaining relationships that drain you Constantly whining, griping, or complaining Inability to say no Always expecting the worse Being ungrateful Unwilling to listen effectively Forgetting to mind your manners Taking others for granted Next list your credits ways you live your life that support and honor you. Anything positive you count as a credit no action is too big or too small. Below are a few credits that add to your lifes bottom line. 1. Smile not just at people you know, but especially at those you dont 2. Give to others without expecting anything in return 3. Do one thing outside of your comfort zone that improves the quality of your life 4. Allow someone to merge into traffic even if they didnt wait their turn 5. Compliment a salesperson/clerk on a job well done 6. Use the good crystal and china other than for a holiday 7. Be honest about what you need to be happy 8. Read to a child 9. Dance to your favorite music 10. Place your neighbors newspaper right outside their door 11. Call someone just to say hello and to see how they are doing 12. Buy a co-worker a cup of coffee or ice cream cone 13. Walk barefoot in the grass 14. Tell someone I love you 15. Learn one new thing every week 16. Every day acknowledge at least one thing in life for which you are grateful At least once a month, create a Life Balance Sheet. Take a look at your Life Balance Sheet at least once a day. This will empower you, at a glance, to realize how wonderful life can be and allow you to make lifestyle adjustments as necessary. Remember, a great life is yours to create. Go create a fabulous life! |
