Have you ever not approached a woman because you assumed you already knew what was going to happen or even better have you ever assumed that all the women at a party are going to reject you in the same way as the first woman you approached? Perhaps you have found yourself assuming a variety of things when approaching and attracting women. Yet when you begin to follow agreement #3 in don Miguel Ruiz's book "The Four Agreements" which is Don't Make Assumptions you will find yourself attracting more women. The main problem with making assumptions is that you believe they are the truth. For example: You happen to get invited to a party hosted by a lingerie model and your friend tells you good luck because all the women that are going to be there are going to be stuck up. So you go to the party and make no effort to talk to any of these "stuck up" women, even though most of the women at this particular party are single and looking for some fun. When attracting women you should never assume anything, especially if it is going to have you not approach a woman. For instance plenty of women hang out in mixed groups and when you assume that since a man and woman are talking to each other in public that they must be together you are missing out on a lot of good opportunities. Most men will politely let you know if he is actually with the woman or not. As a man when you don't assume that you know what a woman wants or doesn't want and instead simply show her the type of man that you are you will find yourself attracting more and more women. |
